CAN WE TRULY FORGIVE OTHERS?

We have all heard it and we have all said it, “I  can forgive but I can’t forget.”

How does one do that? Don’t they both go together? How in the world do you separate them?

If we are are not forgetting what someone or somebody or maybe even a group of people have done to us; how then, can we ever forgive them?

The Universe showed me an example that has helped me greatly.

Imagine your mind is like a library that has millions of books that stores millions of memories. 

It is our library so we can arrange the books in any order or section of the library that we want. The Universe gave me a POG (plan o gram) that would help me arrange the books in the most productive way possible.

At the front of the library the Universe placed books that contained positive thoughts, words, actions, and stories. Unfortunately, when it comes to thoughts that we have every day, experts tell us that 80% are on the negative side. So, with that in mind we have to put those books full of negative thoughts especially when it comes to not forgetting and not forgiving others at the back of the library on the top of those shelves that are hard to reach[jm1] .

So, when it comes to forgiving others in a positive way, make those books easy to get to by putting them in the front of the library or at the front of your memories. Make the negative books full of bitter memories, hatred, jealously, and negative forgiveness at the back of your memory library so that we have to navigate our way through all of the positive thoughts just to get to those unpleasant memories.

Who knows, maybe by the time we arrive at the negative section, we would have forgotten what we were so upset about.

 

 

 

 

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 [jm1]

It's the Lost of a Legacy That Matters

BLACK LIVES MATTER, BLUE LIVES MATTER, ALL LIVES MATTER
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They all are important and have something to say...we need to listen.
Take your pick as to which one is more important...to the group or segment of the population that the above belongs to is most important to them and we need to recognize and respect that.
We owe it to that group to listen...really listen which is what happens when you have dialogue and conversation going.
When we confront each other is when fear sets in; and its hard to have a conversation when both sides are fearful of one another.
Two cases come to mind...George Floyd and David Dorn.
George Floyd was killed by police fighting for his last breath; calling for his mom...haunting.
David Dorn was killed by looters helping a friend defend his pawn shop, left on the sidewalk to die.
Both were black with different backgrounds but the Universe is more concerned with what could they have accomplished...what further legacies could they have left?
What impact could they have left on society and people in general?
That's the legacy that we all have to think about in this lifetime.
Find your own path of legacy and don't be surprised if others are on the same path,
Just remember to keep the dialogue going...you might learn something.

Universe's Commencement Address

 BE VERY PROUD OF YOUR DEGREE BUT AT SOME POINT IN YOUR LIFE TOSS IT ASIDE AND DO SOMETHING ELSE  

 BE PREPARED TO REINVENT YOURSELF TIME AND TIME AGAIN EVEN  WHEN YOU’RE DOWN ON THE GROUND JUST PICKING YOURSELF UP 

CREATE SOMETHING BY THE TIME YOU’RE THIRTY; WHETHER IT’S A BUSINESS OR COMPANY; PRODUCT OR SERVICE; CREATE...

SPEND FIVE MINUTES A DAY IN TOTAL SILENCE...WHEN YOU HEAR NOTHING IS WHEN YOU HEAR EVERYTHING.

SPEND TIME WITH CHILDREN AND THE ELDERLY; WATCH IN WONDER THE PATHS CHILDREN WILL TAKE AND LOOK BACK IN WONDER THE PATHS THAT THE ELDERLY HAVE ALREADY TAKEN.   
Peace to all the graduates...time to fly.

                                    

                                                                        

                                                                  

   

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Is Anyone Listening?

With my gifts, I get a ton of questions.
And that is perfectly normal and understandable.
The questions are fair; sometimes simple but sometimes complex. The future is scary and uncertain and sometimes we are afraid to face what we don't know and what we do know.

But we're not meant to know everything and that's for any number of obvious reasons.
We're meant to live our lives; not follow a script, reciting lines that have been given to us and playing out scenes that we believe we are to play.

Sometimes we have to just quit asking questions and listen.
We can't hear the answers if we spend all of our time asking questions.
Remember these three lines...

STOP- for a moment and just concentrate on breathing

LOOK- for the moment when you hear, see or feel the voice of the Universe.

LISTEN- to what Spirit has to say...to you and only you.

God is not a puppet master pulling our strings; the strings were never there in the first place.

Yes...someone is listening

What does 'Psychic' mean to you?

 PSYCHIC- "relating to or denoting faculties or phenomena that are apparently inexplicable by natural laws, especially involving telepathy or clairvoyance."...that's the best definition, by far that I found online.

 PSYCHIC- "the ability to foretell the future with uncanny accuracy and inform people what lies ahead for finance, relationship and health and be 100% accurate with no mistakes whatsoever"...yep; I'm afraid that's the definition that some people have.

I have psychic abilities but I do not call myself a 'psychic' for a number of reasons.

Here's why...I don't focus just on giving a psychic reading...I give everything the Universe gives me and most importantly expectations of the second definition seems to come alive for some people.

What I tell everyone before I begin a reading is that for me...psychic abilities enable me to read the energy and vibrations on the path you're on.

It's also a reminder to us all that God gives us free will and that people, places and things on our path can change...it's the mystery of the Universe.

It is a gift from God; make no mistake about it. 

But some gifts are clothed in mystery and uncertainty; and that's the beauty of psychic abilities.

                                                                   

Is it OK to Talk to the Dead?

Whenever we lose a loved one, we mourn, grieve, cry; etc. We move on the best that we can, remembering those who have gone before us. As time passes, we talk to our loved ones, gesture towards the sky in remembrance, (as most football players do), ask them for advice when we feel stuck, tell them how much we miss them, etc.

However, when people see that I'm a medium, and that I talk to people who have passed, all of a sudden, I'm a disciple of the devil. I'm treading on dangerous ground; sacred ground that religion deems a sin.

Again, we don't spend time attempting to understand metaphysical gifts such as mediumship...we reach a conclusion based on fear. We separate ourselves from those things we fear, attach a label to the gift and the person that has that gift and immediately dismiss them as somebody or someone to be feared or worse; shunned; ignored, isolated.

This has happened in my own church which I attend.
 I sit at the back because I know there are people several rows ahead of me that have talked about me and my gifts in a negative way and choose to not engage me in conversation so I choose just to sit there and worship God; Jesus, Mary; etc.

Gifts are meant to be shared not put in a box so people can feel at ease. When used correctly in a spiritual way, mediumship is a gift from God. Period.
Peace.

The Sacred Storms of God

We all know the story of Noah and the ark and the flood but more importantly the promise from God that He would never do that again.
Bur God never promised that storms in our life would never come.
There are internal storms and external storms and they all come for specific reasons.

Take a thunderstorm for example...why is it, that we are so captivated by them?
Why is it that when there's rain or a storm, we instantly feel like taking a nap or going to sleep?
Could it be that God is telling us it's going to be ok, even in the darkest times?

Could it be that when we go to sleep during a storm, that the rain is actually the Universe's way of chanting? Chanting soothes the soul and puts us in another place.
The thunder reminds us of God's awesomeness (not to be feared but admired) and the lightning reminds us to seek shelter, just as when we go through bad times to seek the shelter in a safe place, even if it's in our heart and soul.

Next time a storm is approaching; ask the Universe...ok...what are you trying to teach me?
The answer just might surprise you.